Choosing the “Least Worst Option”

May 14, 2009 by  
Filed under For Patients & Families


Sometimes we have to choose between, not a good option and a bad option, but between two terrible options. I have been in this situation before when making decisions for my dad with his worsening dementia, and what helped me was something I read. Sometimes we have to pick the “least worst option.” What does this mean? It means you don’t have a good answer or a good choice. All you can do is to pick the least terrible option. Because that is your best option. I know this is terrible, but sometimes we have to make peace with this dilemma. Of course, we first have to work very hard to figure out if there are other better options available and ask other people for help. But sometimes it comes down to a decision that will never feel right or good. Just do the best you can and pick the least worst choice.

Have a kind and respectful day.