Are Mixed Messages Harming Your Health?

When you are in the hospital, you are vulnerable to the problem of “Mixed Messages.” What this means is that each of the specialists come in and give you information about the part of the body they take care of. So the pulmonary doctor will say, “Your lungs are doing better.” The cardiologist will say, “Your heart is failing.” And the internist will say, “Your infection is getting under control.” But nobody is giving you the big picture. Nobody is telling you how to interpret all of these pieces of information about your health situation. So here is what happens next. The next day your internist comes in to talk to you about end of life issues. You are shocked and ask, “How can I be dying when my lungs are doing better?” You have just done what most people do. You latch onto the best news and forget to take into account the worst part of the news. Yes, your lungs might be better, but you can’t live without your heart and your heart is failing. But nobody is explaining this to you.

Nurses do the same thing. Each day, different nurses are assigned to you. And each nurse has a slightly different view of how you are doing. Or they say, “You are doing better.” What does “better” mean? It doesn’t mean better and you are going home, it means you are doing better than the worst moment you have had in the hospital. Lots of people die in hospitals that are doing “better.” Better doesn’t tell you the whole story.

So what can you do? You can ask the main doctor, called the attending, to give you an overall update about how you are doing. Not just a part by part explanation, but a “big picture” explanation. And if you are getting mixed messages, make sure you listen to the good and the bad. I know that this can be difficult but it is necessary so you can make appropriate decisions about your health. The only way you can have informed consent is if you understand all of the information, not just the news you want to hear.

Have a kind and respectful day.