What is The K.I.N.D. Method?

The K.I.N.D. Method

K – Knowledge

I – Inquire and listen

N – Need to brainstorm

D – Decide and Do it

The Kind Method is a problem solving approach to making ethical medical decisions. The four step process is based on four core concepts: Knowledge, Inquire and Listen, Need to Brainstorm, and Decide and Do it.

The first step is Knowledge. If you don’t know enough information, you won’t be able to make a good decision. Patients make this mistake all the time when they don’t find out more about their disease and their medical options. Doctors also make this mistake when they don’t find out about the patient’s preferences and quality of life goals.

The second step is to Inquire and Listen. This is where most of us get stuck. We don’t ask enough questions. We don’t ask the right questions. And when people tell us the answers, we don’t listen well enough. Or we don’t like the answers and we refuse to listen. We need to ask better and to listen better.

Once you have collected enough information, then you can begin to figure out what you should do. Don’t just jump to the first thought that enters your mind. Instead do step three. You Need to Brainstorm to figure out your options. What is brainstorming? It is coming up with at least three different choices that you can consider. The choices may be as simple as: 1. Do what the doctor said, 2. Don’t do what the doctor said, or 3. Do only part of what the doctor said. Now that you have these three options, you can begin to seriously think about your choices and how each choice would affect your life. Think carefully because it is your life we are talking about.

Once you have done this, now it is time for step four. The fourth step is to Decide and Do it. At this point, the deciding may be easy but the doing may be more difficult. But if you have gone through the first three steps, you can feel more confident that you are making the right decision and it is time to take action.

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