Patience - Lessons Learned - Viki’s Journey
Patience – Lessons Learned - KindEthics.com Newsletter Quote of the Month: The individual is capable of both great compassion and great indifference. He has it within his means to nourish the former and outgrow the latter. Norman Cousins I love when life reminds me of the lessons that I thought I had learned, but then I find out I need a refresher course. This month’s newsletter is about having patience, but not just your average patience, instead good-natured and seeking to understand patience. There are two parts to this story. The second part first: Two weeks ago I had to make about 50 phone ...
Book is available now at TheCaregiversPath.com
The Caregiver's Path to Compassionate Decision Making - Making Choices for Those Who Can't is available on TheCaregiversPath.com. You can also pre-order it on bookstore websites and it will be in bookstores on July 1. Have a kind and respectful day.
One more great medical office, Kathryn Fallon and Wendy Lit, Doctors of Optometry
MY FAVORITE DOCTOR’S OFFICE, by Susan Harris Of all the doctors’ offices I have been to, (and there have been many), there is one that stands out as being “The Best”. It is the office of Kathryn Fallon and Wendy Lit, Doctors of Optometry. I found them in a rather unscientific way. At the time, I was wearing contact lenses, and was searching for an office in my vision plan which sold them at the lowest price. I started down the list, making phone calls. In some cases I was put on hold for way too ...
Another great medical office, Dr. Aaron Hertel from Hertel and Brown, Erie, PA
Submitted by Andrea Reynolds for her dad, Wesley Reynolds. My 89 year old Dad's DPT (Doctor of Physical Therapy (Aaron Hertel) is willing to put in a handicap parking spot at his front door so Dad can get in and out of the van more easily. See the photo of the front door at Frontier Place: http://www.hertelandbrown.com/ Most of their patients are young athletes. We already have the Handicap Placard, just not the place to park. Hertel and Brown, Frontier Place, 1337 West 6th Street, Erie, PA 16505 Andrea Reynolds, THE CRISIS CLINIC I champion for justice if you've been cheated, mistreated, or swindled. Retain me to restore your money, ...
Winner of Best Office Story: Dr. William Lyons of Long Beach, California
Medical Office Winner: William Lyons, M.D., 4301 Atlantic Ave., Long Beach, California From Randa, his patient: I have several specialty doctors like many others. Thus, evaluating and determining impressive offices is an activity to engage in while waiting. The details of my impressive office begin before I get there. I know the parking will be simple and with no parking fee. The office is on the ground floor. This adds up to saved time and money. I know before arriving that I can treat myself to reading a book or writing notes while waiting. (and rarely is the wait long). ...
CONTEST!! Tell me about your favorite doctor’s office and how the staff have made a difference. I will send the person who submits the winning story and the winning doctor’s office a cake from BakeAWish.com. Ends Nov. 8, 2009
I have worked in a medical office and I know how difficult it can be to keep the doctor on schedule, deal with the patients that are suffering and to make sure the bills get sent to the insurance company on time. I would like to honor this month the great doctor office's staff that go the extra mile to make sure that the patients get the care they need. I also know that this group of workers don't always get the recognition they deserve. So here is what I would like to do this month. Tell me ...
No regrets. Spend quality time with loved ones today.
It is important to spend time with our loved ones. It is especially important that we spend time with those who have lost their ability to drive. Tell your loved one that you have saved the afternoon for them and you are willing to drive them where they want to go. We lose so much of our freedom as we get older and more dependent. Instead of you choosing the activity or the restaurant, let them be in charge. So, if they want to go to the local hardware store and wander around like they used to when they were ...
I thought we were all past this. Why are we still keeping gay and lesbian couples from visiting each other in the hospital?
I thought we were past this. I thought this issue was resolved but apparently it isn't. This week in Fresno - California, a lesbian partner was not allowed in to see her partner of 3 1/2 years in the hospital. If she had said she was the woman's sister, aunt, or friend she would have been allowed to visit. But because she is in a relationship with the patient, it was not okay. Please, we all have to get over this. It is stressful and scary enough to be in the hospital when you ...
Most people on their death bed will ask, “Did I matter?” Here is a dying ritual to help you with this question.
One of the universal questions that people ask themselves when they are dying is, “Did I matter.” It doesn’t matter what religion you are or if you have no religion, we all hope that our life has made a difference. Whether you are interacting with your loved one or if you are a healthcare professional caring for a patient, this is something that you can help the dying with. Let them know directly how they have made a difference in your life. Tell them if you have learned something from them, if they have made you laugh or if they ...
Are you the patient’s advocate or a bully?
This might be painful to read, but you may be making things worse for your loved one. Now I am a big believer in advocating for what you need in healthcare but there is a line which shouldn’t be crossed. And the line is when you start bullying the members of the healthcare team. Here is what this might look like. The doctor says, “What you are requesting won’t work for this condition. That treatment isn’t an option.” And you say, “You have to do it anyway or I will sue you.” You will probably get your way because doctors ...
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Welcome to the combined website for KindEthics.com and TheCaregiversPath.com. Although they are distinctly different, they have been interwoven here because they share a common mission: treating each other and ourselves with kindness and respect. Whether it’s empowering caregivers, giving voice to those who need protecting, or resolving conflicts peacefully, Viki helps people find the courage to do the right thing. And with this comes peace of mind. Viki is her name, “Kind.” This website and the KindEthics blog will provide you practical help and solutions for the situations you are facing. Click here for the book, The Caregiver’s Path to Compassionate Decision Making: Making Choices for Those Who Can’t.”
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Autonomy and Patient’s Rights
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Better Hearing and Speech Month - Stop and listen and get people the help they need
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Stop! The plan isn’t working as expected.
Sometimes, in spite of our best efforts,...
Patient’s Rights - Where do they start and where to they end?
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Helping our patients get the help they need when their senses fail
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the Gardens at Park Balboa will be hosting a presentation on 9/8/10 from 7-8:30pm PST
Viki will be giving a presentation at the Gardens at Park Balboa on 9/8/10 from 7-8:30pm PST The Gardens at Park Balboa, an Assisted Living residence in Van Nuys, California is a recently remodeled building located in the heart of the San Fernando Valley. They believe in encouraging the growth of their residents... [Read more of this review]
How to Deal with Change for Aging Parents!! Dale Carter’s new book
How to Deal with Change for Aging Parents? by Dale on August 29, 2010 New Book Addresses Issues and Solutions for a Peaceful Transition SOUTH BEND (August 26, 2010) – According to the U.S. Census Bureau, there are 77 million Baby Boomers. Many Boomers are dealing with the challenge of the changing needs... [Read more of this review]
North Valley Jewish Community Center presents “Empowering Caregivers Making the Difficult Life and Health Decisions
North Valley Jewish Community Center will present “Empowering Caregivers - Making the Difficult Life and Health Decisions” in three lecture events on August 24th, October 6th, and November 8th from 7:00-8:30pm PST. North Valley Jewish Community Center, NVJCC, is the center for educational, recreational,... [Read more of this review]
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When your loved one is incapacitated, who will make his or her decisions?
Who should make the decisions when this person can’t? The answer to this question could be any one of the following: Person specified on the Advance Directive Conservator or guardian Spouse Significant other/partner Adult child of patient Parent Adult sibling Relative Friend Family Healthcare team Administrator... [Read more of this review]
Patience - Lessons Learned - Viki’s Journey
Patience – Lessons Learned - KindEthics.com Newsletter Quote of the Month: The individual is capable of both great compassion and great indifference. He has it within his means to nourish the former and outgrow the latter. Norman Cousins I love when life reminds me of the lessons that I thought I had learned,... [Read more of this review]
The medical decision is just part of life’s equation.
So many people ask me what they should be thinking about when making medical decisions. Whether you are making your own decisions or having to make decisions for others, there is a lot to think about. Your doctor or your loved one’s doctor will talk to you about the medical aspects of any health-related... [Read more of this review]
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Viki interviews Anne Bland, author of Breathe on September 18th, 9AM Pacific on blogtalkradio.com/kindethics
Viki interviews Anne Bland, author of Breathe on September 18, 9AM Pacific on blogtalkradio.com/kindethics Join me as I interview Anne Bland as she discusses her new book Breathe - A True Story of Letting Go of My Parents Gracefully, For I Will See Them Again. Breathe was written and published in the first few... [Read more of this review]
Viki interviews Lori La Bey from http://www.seniorlifestyletrends.com and http://www.AlzheimersSpeaks.com on August 30, 9AM Pacific on blogtalkradio.com/kindethics
Viki interviews Lori La Bey from http://www.seniorlifestyletrends.com and http://www.AlzheimersSpeaks.com on August 30, 9AM Pacific on blogtalkradio.com/kindethics Lori La Bey of Alzheimer’s Speaks and Senior Lifestyle Trends is a driver of Change. She helps families, communities, organizations, and businesses... [Read more of this review]
Viki interviews Dr. Sandra Haymon, author of Baby Boomers - Sandwiched Between Retirement and Caregiving on August 25, 9am Pacific on blogtalkradio.com/kindethics
Viki interviews Dr. Sandra Haymon, author of Baby Boomers - Sandwiched Between Retirement and Caregiving on August 25, 9am on blogtalkradio.com/kindethics Baby Boomers - Sandwiched Between Retirement and Caregiving is a fun and sometimes funny look at caring for our elderly loved ones. It’s filled with... [Read more of this review]
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Viki's Book Release - July 1st, 2010
The Caregiver's Path to Compassionate Decision Making: Making Choices For Those Who Can't 
Viki's Book Tour Calendar- Presentation - Empowering Caregivers to Make Better Decisions September 8, 20107046 Kester Ave, Van Nuys, CA 91405, USA: Wednesday September 8th, 7-8:30pm
- TV appearance September 14, 2010WGN-TV Chicago (Tuesday September 14th, 12-1pm)
- CME Lecture - Improving Healthcare Communication September 15, 201014445 Olive View Dr, Sylmar, CA 91342, USA: Wednesday September 15th, 8-9:30am
- CME Lecture - The New Polst Law September 23, 20103700 E South St, Lakewood, CA 90712, USA: Thursday September 23rd, 12-1:30pm
- Presentation - Empowering Caregivers to Make Better Decisions September 8, 2010
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