GO WISH Cards – A wonderful tool to explain what you want if you were seriously ill
Coda Alliance presents the 'Go Wish Game'. It gives you an easy, entertaining way to think and talk about what's important to you if you become seriously ill. The starter game comes with two packs of cards in contrasting colors and instructions for using the cards individually or in pairs. For more information about the game, and to play on-line, visit www.gowish.org. Reach And Teach Says: "A woman at church came up to us and thanked us for having introduced her to Go Wish. She had given her mother a deck of Go Wish cards and had gone through the deck once with ...
Free - Thinking Ahead Workbook and Videos available for those with Developmental Disabilities and other Cognitive Impairments
Good news. The California Coalition for Compassionate Care has created a workbook and set of videos for documenting the wishes of those with developmental delays. (It would also work well for those with other cognitive impairments.) You can get free copies of the workbook sent to you or you can download it directly. It is called "Thinking Ahead." Here is the website: http://www.coalitionccc.org/thinking-ahead.php Thinking Ahead: My Life at the End - Enables people with developmental disabilities to advocate for themselves and stay in control of their lives through the very end. Thinking Ahead: My Life at the End contains words, ...
Drowning but can’t reach for a life vest: families, caregivers, doctors, nurses and many others helping professionals
I had such a sad experience recently. I was speaking to a group of doctors and presenting them some techniques to make their lives easier. (This was at a county hospital which deals with the most underprivileged of our community.) I was surprised by how many of the doctors in the room were so resistant to accepting help. I sensed from their comments how burnt out they were and how hopeless they had become. The system they are working under is so broken that they couldn’t imagine that anything could change or be made better. ...
When you are going the wrong way, turn around.
When we are making the decisions for those in our care, it is important to make sure that the decision is still working. You may find that you made the best medical decision you could and then the plan didn’t work. When this happens, it is important to reconsider the treatment plan. Otherwise, you’re driving down the wrong road: You can keep driving and driving, but you will never get to where you are going. You need to stop, ask for new directions and then start down a new path. You may also need to modify your expectations when things ...
Patience - Lessons Learned - Viki’s Journey
Patience – Lessons Learned - KindEthics.com Newsletter Quote of the Month: The individual is capable of both great compassion and great indifference. He has it within his means to nourish the former and outgrow the latter. Norman Cousins I love when life reminds me of the lessons that I thought I had learned, but then I find out I need a refresher course. This month’s newsletter is about having patience, but not just your average patience, instead good-natured and seeking to understand patience. There are two parts to this story. The second part first: Two weeks ago I had to make about 50 phone ...
The medical decision is just part of life’s equation.
So many people ask me what they should be thinking about when making medical decisions. Whether you are making your own decisions or having to make decisions for others, there is a lot to think about. Your doctor or your loved one's doctor will talk to you about the medical aspects of any health-related decision. But that doesn’t mean that you are limited to thinking only about medicine. It may be important to consider the financial costs associated with the treatment plan, if the patient’s religion should play a role in the decision and whether there are cultural issues that ...
Great new guide for when you leave the hospital
Too often we spend a lot of time thinking about going into the hospital but no time thinking about coming home. The hospital discharge process is when patients are vulnerable to misunderstandings and errors. The patient is feeling sick and not able to listen to the instructions, the loved one may or may not be there, and the nurse rushes through the crucial information. If you can, make sure you have a loved one beside you when the nurse goes over the discharge instructions. If you have questions, ask until you get the answers you need. ...
Book is available now at TheCaregiversPath.com
The Caregiver's Path to Compassionate Decision Making - Making Choices for Those Who Can't is available on TheCaregiversPath.com. You can also pre-order it on bookstore websites and it will be in bookstores on July 1. Have a kind and respectful day.
Kindness Reminder: Cook an old family recipe
People ask me, what can I do to make my loved one's life a little better. Here is this weeks Kindness Reminder. To sign up for more fun and thoughtful ways to say I care and I am thinking about you, go to my website at KindEthics.com and sign up in the box at the top right. When people live in institutions, they don't get to experience the joy of a home cooked meal or the ability to cook the old family recipes anymore. And even those who don't live in a facility, they still aren't cooking like ...
Speaker phone, conference call or webcam your loved one’s doctor appointment.
If you can’t go to the doctor’s appointment with your loved one, whether it is because of work or distance, you can go by speaker phone. Have your loved one take their cell phone or use the doctor’s phone and put it on speaker in the exam room. You can give the doctor more information if your loved one isn’t a good communicator and then listen as the doctor tells you both the treatment plan. You can also use the conference call function to make sure the other family members are included. Communication is essential to ...
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Welcome to the combined website for KindEthics.com and TheCaregiversPath.com. Although they are distinctly different, they have been interwoven here because they share a common mission: treating each other and ourselves with kindness and respect. Whether it’s empowering caregivers, giving voice to those who need protecting, or resolving conflicts peacefully, Viki helps people find the courage to do the right thing. And with this comes peace of mind. Viki is her name, “Kind.” This website and the KindEthics blog will provide you practical help and solutions for the situations you are facing. Click here for the book, The Caregiver’s Path to Compassionate Decision Making: Making Choices for Those Who Can’t.”
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ALZHEIMER’S ASSOCIATION OFFERS GUIDELINES AND TIPS FOR THE HOLIDAYS
ALZHEIMER’S ASSOCIATION OFFERS GUIDELINES AND TIPS FOR THE HOLIDAYS Helping people care for loved ones with Alzheimer’s disease LOS ANGELES, CA – The holidays are a time full of celebration, joy and special occasions with family and friends. But for people living with Alzheimer’s disease the season can... [Read more of this review]
Families invited to Free Webinar and Live Event - November 8 - Free CEU for CCMC, NURSE AND SOCIAL WORK
Free CEU Seminar & Networking Reception Empowering Caregivers of Dementia Patients on Tuesday, November 08, 2011 Viki Kind - Author of The Caregiver’s Path to Compassionate Decision Making - Making Choices for Those Who Can’t 5:30 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. EST or Join via Webinar RSVP Today at SeniorBridge.com/Seminar... [Read more of this review]
Join me at the California Women Business Owners meeting in Woodland Hills, CA on Oct. 10 at 6PM
Join me at the California Women Business Owners meeting in Woodland Hills, CA on Oct. 10 at 6PM. Maggiano’s Little Italy 6100 Topanga Canyon Boulevard, #1330 Woodland Hills, CA 91367 Phone: 818.887.3777 California Women Business Owners is a non profit organization that serves women business owners and professionals... [Read more of this review]
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Kindness Reminders Idea from Hayes Rowan - Sewing Bee to Make Pillows for Seniors
I have been sending out Kindness Reminders to many people who want to make sure that they reach out to show their love to a person who lives far away, a senior in a care community, or someone who just needs a little tender, loving care. If you would like to sign up for these reminders, sign up at the top right... [Read more of this review]
Viki will be speaking at Aegis of Las Vegas on Monday, May 16th from 5:30-7:30 - CEU’s available
Join Viki at Aegis of Las Vegas - Alzheimer’s Memory Care http://www.aegisliving.com/alzheimers_memory_care/Las_Vegas_NV/zip_89117/aegis_living/1666 9100 West Desert Inn Road Las Vegas, NV 89117 RSVP: 702-425-1329 CEU’s available We have developed innovative communities designed specifically for... [Read more of this review]
Helping People Access Hospice Care
Over and over again, I’ve sat in rooms with 30 doctors, and I’ve asked the question, “How many of you refer patients to hospice? Early or late? Out of the 30 doctors perhaps five will raise their hand And usually the referral is made very close to the patient’s death. This is terrible. Patients and... [Read more of this review]
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Mary Ellen Mannix - Protecting Newborns from the Most Common Birth Defects on Dec. 1st
Join me as I interview Mary Ellen Mannix, author, teacher, restorative practices educator & facilitator, and nationally recognized patient safety advocate. December 1st at 11AM PST/2PM EST http://www.blogtalkradio.com/kindethics/2011/12/01/mary-ellen-mannix–the-james-project–protecting-newborns Communication... [Read more of this review]
Advocating for and making Quality Long Term Care Decisions - R
Join me on Sept. 27th, 9AM PST, 12PM EST as I interview Robyn Grant, the director of Advocacy and Outreach at the National Consumer Voice for Quality Long-Term Care (the “Consumer Voice”). http://www.blogtalkradio.com/kindethics/2011/09/27/robyn-grant–advocati ng-for-quality-long-term-care-1 The... [Read more of this review]
Join me as I interview Bennett Blum, MD, “Undue Influence - How Seniors are Being Manipulated and Abused by their Families,” on Sept. 12th at 11AM PST
Join me as I interview Bennett Blum, MD, “Undue Influence - How Seniors are Being Manipulated and Abused by their Families,” on Sept. 12th at 11AM PST. http://www.blogtalkradio.com/kindethics/2011/09/12/bennett-blum-md-undue-influence–a-danger-for-seniors Bennett Blum, M.D., is an internationally... [Read more of this review]
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